..and did not blame my problems on others

For as long as I know myself when the sh*t would hit the proverbial fan, I at least partially, would share the blame, the cause or root reason on something else than myself.  There was never a a pure accounting on my part that said:" I am the sole responsible for this"

As a kid I would hear my father and mother say things why me?  That little saying, why me, is more poisenous than a toxic mother-in-law!  It implied an external force other than me uttering this sayings, is involved in my day to day decision making.

Maybe luck, pedigree, life style, background or something else is out there that makes all those dumb decisions for me and then evolves into even dumber results.

"I would have never decided for this if I would have known that this is going to be the outcome".

Michael, wake up it was you  that made this decision.  It might have been a poor one, but it was you and nobody else.

How about: "that alway happens", "it's my life's story", "They said, did, made, pointed...",  "all I did is follow his advise..",  "I am not good enough"  "two steps forward, four steps back".

Where is all this crap coming from?  What kind of a believe systems is that?

I don't know, is what I used to say.  But no more!  I take full responsibilty for my actions.  Gone are all these misterious forces.  What a freedom to know that it is me that I can blam and it is me that I can thank.

Well, waking up is sometimes can take a long time, even years.  Am I awake yet?

QUESTION OF THE DAY:      

Who is to blame?

Post your creative answers in the comment section below.

Me and my daughter: